What made me unbreakable?
Meet Aide
I was the "strong one" who was secretly falling apart.
I had built what looked like success, financial stability, motherhood, all the boxes checked. But beneath the surface? I was exhausted, lost, and running on empty.
Motherhood broke open every lie I'd believed about "having it together." The picture-perfect version I'd been sold left me feeling deceived and alone.
That's when I realized: No one was coming to save me. I had to choose myself.
So I did. And everything changed.
I learned that you don't have to sacrifice your peace for your security. That being strong doesn't mean never needing help. That the power to create the life you want was always inside you, you just forgot.
Now I help women remember that power.
Because you deserve to feel whole, not fractured. Secure, not stressed. At peace, not performing.
And you don't have to figure it out alone.
IF I COULD RISE, SO CAN YOU: MY STORY
1991
I WASN´T SUPPOSED TO MAKE IT.
Born in a small hut on the coast of Colombia, without electricity or running water, I became an orphan at 5 years old. I carry the blood of those who survived the transatlantic slave trade - those who never surrendered. Violence forced me from home to home, and every statistic said I'd never escape poverty.
1996 - 2008
My first great responsibility - caring for my 3-year-old sister when I had just turned 5.
At an age when most children are learning to tie their shoes, I was learning to tie our lives together. Moving from house to house every 3-4 years, I became her shield against the chaos. In a world that felt temporary, I made myself her constant. This little girl taught me my first lesson in leadership: sometimes love means carrying someone else's weight when you can barely carry your own. Every move, every new bed, every unfamiliar face - I made sure she never felt alone, even when I did.
2009
THE IMPOSSIBLE DREAM
How I entered the Colombian Air Force with zero possibilities.
Everyone saw a displaced orphan with no connections, no money, no "possibilities." I saw my only shot at stability. While others had family pulling strings, I had hunger pulling me forward. Working in restaurants, saving every peso, studying by candlelight - I turned my desperation into determination. The day I walked through those academy gates wasn't just about joining the military. It was about proving that impossible is just another word for "hasn't happened yet."
2011 - 2020
ROOTS IN THE EARTH
I started buying cattle to purchase land - finally, a place in the world I could call mine.
With my first Air Force salary in hand, I made a choice that would change everything. While my peers spent on weekend parties, I invested in cattle. Each cow was a step closer to something I'd never had: belonging. Land meant more than dirt and grass - it meant I would never again be at the mercy of someone else's roof. For the first time in my life, I wasn't just surviving someone else's story. I was writing my own, one acre at a time.
2020
THE FIRST ACT OF SELF-LOVE
While the world was closing in, I was opening up.
After years chasing security through military paychecks, I made the most terrifying decision of my life: I chose myself.
Leaving the Air Force wasn't running from stability, it was running toward possibility. Years of therapy, family constellations, breaking limiting beliefs one by one... it all led me to one liberating truth: my only responsibility to myself was to be happy.
For the first time, I did something not because I needed to, but because I wanted to. It wasn't survival mode. It was the beginning of truly living.
COVID forced the world to stop. I decided to start. While everyone was seeking stability in the familiar, I found mine by choosing myself for the first time, not as an act of rebellion, but as an act of self-love.
2020
THE BETRAYAL THAT BROKE ME
When I lost all my savings by blindly trusting someone I thought was my sister.
The person I called sister, who I'd trusted with my entire financial future, vanished with everything I'd built. Every cow sold, every dream mortgaged, every hope shattered. This wasn't just theft, it was the final confirmation of my deepest fear: I truly had no one. The depression that followed wasn't just about money. It was about realizing that even in my closest relationships, I was still fundamentally alone. Some betrayals don't just take your money - they take your faith in human goodness.
2021
THE CELL THAT TESTED MY CHARACTER
When Honesty Became My Superpower
Immigration detention. One night in a cell. They offered me political asylum—an easy path because of my displaced background and military service.
But I said no.
"I don't want to take a spot from someone who needs this more than me. I know I can rebuild my life." That honesty, that refusal to take the easy way out, changed everything.
2.5 years later, they granted me permanent residency.
This is where I learned: Integrity is the most valuable currency you can never lose.
2021-2023
THE DARKNESS THAT ALMOST WON
I fell into deep depression - no job, no support network, wondering why I kept getting up when life kept knocking me down.
This was my rock bottom with a basement. No income, no visa, no family, no safety net, just me and the crushing weight of wondering if survival was worth it. Every morning became a battle between giving up and getting up. The voice in my head whispered that maybe everyone was right, maybe I wasn't meant to make it. But somewhere in that darkness, a tiny flame refused to die. I couldn't see the light at the end of the tunnel, but I kept crawling forward anyway, one breath at a time.
2024
HOW I TURNED MY BREAKING POINT INTO MY BREAKTHROUGH
Here's what nobody tells you about rock bottom: it's not where you break. It's where you build.
I rebuilt from absolute zero. Not just a life, but a thriving business that generated $100K in its first year.
Not because the path was clear. Because I'd done the inner work to trust myself completely, even in the dark.
When you've lost everything twice, you stop fearing loss. You start recognizing your real wealth: the resilience you've earned, the wisdom you've gathered, the unshakeable knowing that you can rise again. And again. And again.
That $100K wasn't just revenue, it was proof. Evidence that when you combine deep healing with strategic action, when you pair self-awareness with relentless determination, you don't just survive.
You become unstoppable.
And if I could do it, starting from nothing, carrying all my wounds and fears and doubts, so can you. Because the tools that saved me? They're the same ones I'm here to share with you.
Today
the true, I didn't choose this work—it claimed me.
Through years of therapy, countless courses, and a lot of theory... it was my own breaking points that gave me wisdom. Every path I've walked, the financial struggles, the emotional exhaustion, the moments I had to choose myself when no one else would, those weren't just my story. They were my training ground.
I'm not here because I read about transformation. I'm here because I lived it. Multiple times. And somewhere between rebuilding my life and reclaiming my peace, I realized: every tool I fought to find, every boundary I learned to set, every moment I chose myself over everyone's expectations, these weren't just for me. They were meant to light the way for you.
My mission isn't to fix you—you're not broken.
It's to remind you: You are your own rescue. Always have been. Always will be.
THE TRUTH I'VE LEARNED:
Money doesn't make you wealthy. Self-love does.
Your bank account can be stolen. Your self-worth cannot.
The most powerful person in your life story isn't the one who hurt you or helped you. It's you. It´s always been YOU.